Down to Earth

A new beginning . . .

2020 was a year like no other. When uncertainty and fear became part of our daily lives, I saw many people start to think deeply about how they live and what ‘home’ means to them. After the first month of lockdown it was crystal clear that we all need our homes to be safe places.

There is no simple solution when you ask, ‘How can I change my life to create a resilient and secure future?’ But there are steps you can take to create a haven for you and your loved ones. My books, Down to Earth and The Simple Home, were originally written for those who wanted to slow down and simplify life. Now, they are also guides for creating a home that will provide safety and comfort during the uncertain years ahead.

Large-scale public health events and natural disasters such as fires, floods and weather events force change on all of us. Simplifying how you live allows you to deal with those changes while using your home to shelter, grow, cook, bake and store food. You’ll live with fewer chemicals and less waste. Intelligent money management and budgeting will help you to conserve resources and live on less than you earn so you’re able to support yourself if the hard times return.

There is a clear way forward when you use the information in this book, take control of what you do each day and work consistently to a plan. You’ll be able to make simple and effective changes that will reward you with a home that is productive, nurturing and generous. I hope you find inspiration and encouragement here, too, because we all work to our potential when we’re motivated and focused on a sustainable future. And I believe we need many more people to be working towards that goal.

Rhonda

LIVING SIMPLY

I was pulled into simple living before I knew what it was. It crept up on me using the smallest of steps and didn’t reveal its true beauty and real power until I was totally hooked. I was searching for a way to live well while spending very little money. What I found was a way of life that also gave me independence, opportunity and freedom.

A change of heart

Had I known what profound and beautiful changes were awaiting me, I would have had a change of heart much sooner. About ten years ago I eased myself out of shopping, fashion, eating out and other non-essential spending. I felt like I was taking a giant leap into the unknown and everyone was asking me, ‘Why!?’ Now times have changed. There has been a worldwide financial crisis, a grey tsunami of retiring baby boomers is beginning to influence our lives as they leave the workforce and many move towards government pensions, and many more people are worried about the economy, the environment and the future. Clearly the time is right for a simple change. But it’s not just for those who are facing difficulties. Even if recent years have treated you more kindly, simple living will have something to offer you. It’s not just a refuge in a sea of environmental and economic calamity, it’s a beautiful and significant life choice in itself.

I was pulled into simple living before I knew what it was. It crept up on me using the smallest of steps and didn’t reveal its true beauty and real power until I was totally hooked. I was searching for a way to live well while spending very little money. What I found was a way of life that also gave me independence, opportunity and freedom.

I live with my husband, Hanno, in the hinterland of Queensland’s Sunshine Coast. We’ve been married more than thirty years and have two sons, Shane and Kerry. They have both left home and settled down to build lives with their partners, Sarndra and Sunny. We’ve recently welcomed our first grandchildren. Life, as we move into our later years, looks pretty good.

I guess you would say we’re ‘retired’ but we still work almost every day, making bread, jams, relish and soap, cooking from scratch, growing vegetables, recycling and mending what we use in our home. We aim to live productive lives, so while many of our contemporaries are travelling in caravans or planes we’re pleased to be homebodies, finding satisfaction in our simple home, and excitement and adventure in a backyard full of fruit, vegetables, chickens and wildlife. Rhythms, seasons and daylight rather than clocks, calendars and investment portfolios guide our days. We are in a fortunate position to be able to live this way and we both find it very satisfying to be active at this stage of life and to feel enriched by what we do.

Hatching a new life

After many years working as a journalist and technical writer I was burnt out. I’d just finished a major contract for a big company when I realised I didn’t want to work for a living any more. I wanted to stay at home and rebuild my spirit. I wanted to look after my family, slow down, collect eggs and honey, and sit and dream in my garden. I also wanted to feel more alive.

What I had been doing was working in a job I didn’t like so I had enough money to pay for a lifestyle I didn’t want. I was shopping for clothes and shoes to make me look like everyone else. I was buying things for my home to make me feel comfortable in a place I didn’t take the time to feel comfortable in. And I was buying food to comfort and nurture because I didn’t feel at ease in my life and I didn’t have the time or energy to cook the food I liked. This destructive behaviour seemed to be quite acceptable and, from what I could see, my family and friends were doing a similar thing. Continuous consumption was even encouraged by our government, who told us that shopping was good for the country and we were ‘growing the economy’.

And the strangest thing is that when I was living in this way, I didn’t think about the sadness I was feeling. I didn’t realise I was unsatisfied and I didn’t see the need for change. I believed I was the queen of my realm, that the more I had and the more dollars I spent, the more power, strength and independence I had. When I stopped spending I realised how pathetically wrong that was. I had actually been giving away my independence.

Now that I look back on it, I must have been a bit crazy to believe that I could just stop shopping without changing the way I lived too. I thought I would just stop the mindless spending while finding satisfaction within my own home, and that would be that. I didn’t know then that the charm of living without shopping, and of making do with what I had, would open up a whole new world for me, where independence and opportunity would live side by side and lead to a kind of gentle liberation.

Luckily, at that point, I discovered that others had walked this road less travelled before me. I found a group of writers who had been explaining their philosophy to the world for many years, so I started reading. I found Walden by Henry David Thoreau online and devoured it within hours. I ordered books from America that were not yet available in Australia – The Simple Living Guide by Janet Luhrs, Your Money or Your Life by Joe Dominguez and Vicki Robin, the Encyclopedia of Country Living by Carla Emery, and The Complete Tightwad Gazette by Amy Dacyczyn.

I also discovered blogs. Here was a world I had never known about, where real people were writing about things that interested me. I could see into their lives, get to know their families, understand how they lived and be part of a community that supported one another. Once I found blogs, it didn’t matter much that I didn’t personally know anyone who was doing what I was doing; I felt comfortable in the company I kept online. In those early days I didn’t find many people blogging about living my dream life, but I really enjoyed the blogs about family and frugal living. I also found blogs about global warming, lightening your footprint, going green and peak oil, but none that wrote about what I wanted to do – change how we live in the most fundamental and practical way.

I started my own blog and called it ‘Down to Earth’. Instead of adding my voice to the fast-growing group of people who were writing about environmental disaster and post-peak survival, I decided I would write about our ordinary daily lives and how we were simplifying, and let that be my manifesto. I believed where radical change was needed was in the business of day-to-day living which, if done mindfully, could hopefully lead us to a good life. I hoped that writing the blog every day would make me accountable and give us a clear record of what we were doing.

I realised that many of the things I spent my money on I could do or make myself: I could make clothes, I could cook, I could do my own housework. But once I started doing those things I found that I’d lost many of those skills. I’d forgotten how to sew and knit because I’d been paying someone else to make my clothes. I’d forgotten how to cook from scratch because I’d been buying food that didn’t require me to exercise my mind or spend my energy on making my favourite dishes. When it came to housework, all I knew was to get products from the cupboard and start wiping. I was a grown woman and I didn’t know how to look after my family or myself properly. I’d forgotten the skills that had been passed on to me and I was almost completely dependent on others to help me live.

You don’t have to be a genius to shop; all you need is money, or a credit card, and some time. Not shopping, on the other hand, requires a multifaceted strategy. You need to know how to create, cook, clean and sew; you need to make do with what you have, to reuse, recycle and repair. You need to barter, grow, store and preserve – and it helps if you like doing it. You have to discover for yourself the true beauty of being able to look after yourself, your family and your home with a minimum of outside help. The beauty is there if you look.

We live on a limited budget but I am richer now than I’ve ever been in my life. I know how to live. I have the skills to survive a crisis. I have the strength and knowledge to produce my own food and to store it. I can clothe myself and others. These are life-engaging and self-empowering skills. But the real skill here is to do it and love doing it day after day. Relearning those lost skills, and then using them, are acts of subversion because you’re not doing what women and men in our times are supposed to be doing. Nurturing your family and yourself with cooking, gardening, repairing, dressmaking, knitting, creating, recycling and all the other things you learn to do in your post-consumerist life not only enriches your spirit, but also makes you an independent force. May the force be with you.