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Why We Click
  • Published: 26 March 2026
  • ISBN: 9781405985314
  • Imprint: Penguin Audio
  • Format: Audio Download
  • RRP: $28.00

Why We Click

The Emerging Science of Interpersonal Synchrony




The hidden science of why people click, and how this powerful phenomenon shapes our lives.

Why do you immediately click with some people while others inexplicably turn you off? Do people emit vibes – good or bad? Is it possible to read a room? Are bad habits contagious?

The hidden science of why people click, and how this powerful phenomenon shapes our lives.

In Why We Click, bestselling author Kate Murphy explores the science behind the seemingly magical yet science-backed phenomenon that makes us fall into rhythm and find resonance with one another. Murphy reveals how and why we match one another's movements, posture and gestures, and sync up our heart rates, blood pressure, pupil dilation, brainwaves and hormonal activity. This powerful tool shows that emotions, moods and behaviours are all infectious and can profoundly impact our health and wellbeing – for good or bad.


In this enthralling book, discover the superpower of \"interpersonal synchrony\" and its extraordinary benefits so you can learn how to detect and encourage this phenomenon when beneficial, and \"desynchronise\" from others when it is not.

  • Published: 26 March 2026
  • ISBN: 9781405985314
  • Imprint: Penguin Audio
  • Format: Audio Download
  • RRP: $28.00

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Praise for Why We Click

'Intelligent and thought-provoking'

The Times, on You’re Not Listening

'Smart and playful'

Observer, on You’re Not Listening

'Brilliant'

Chris Evans, on You’re Not Listening

'This book changed the way I think about communicating with the people who matter to me'

Cal Newport, on You’re Not Listening

'A thoughtful, eloquent volume that could transform not just your relationships but your own worldview as well'

Waterstones, Best Non-fiction Books for 2020 , on You’re Not Listening

'From start to finish, Why We Click dives deep into how we relate, communicate, and sync our behavior in fascinating and perplexing ways. It’s a captivating journey through the science behind the powerful, yet invisible forces that synchronize human behavior.'

Danny Meyer, author of Setting the Table