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  • Published: 15 March 2008
  • ISBN: 9780767920858
  • Imprint: Knopf US
  • Format: Paperback
  • Pages: 256
  • RRP: $37.99

Walking on Eggshells

Navigating the Delicate Relationship Between Adult Children and Parents




The perfect gift for both parents and their adult children—”a wonderfully wise and constructive intergenerational guide” that will keep you connected to the people you love most. “Read it and learn.”—New York Times bestselling author Judith Viorst

We raise our children to be independent and lead fulfilling lives, but when they finally do, staying close becomes more complicated than ever. And for every bewildered mother who wonders why her children don’t call, there is a frustrated son or daughter who just wants to be treated like a grownup. Now, renowned author and editor Jane Isay delivers real-life wisdom and advice on how to stay together without falling apart.

Using extensive interviews with people from ages twenty-five to seventy, Isay shows that we’re far from alone in our struggles to make this new, adult relationship work. She offers up groundbreaking insights and deeply moving stories that will inspire those in even the toughest situations. Isay’s warmth and wit shine through on every page as she charts an invaluable course through the confusing, and often painful, interactions parents and children can face. Walking on Eggshells is the much-needed road map that will keep you connected to the people you love most.

  • Published: 15 March 2008
  • ISBN: 9780767920858
  • Imprint: Knopf US
  • Format: Paperback
  • Pages: 256
  • RRP: $37.99

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Praise for Walking on Eggshells

"The stories are heartwarming, and Isay recounts them with intelligence and compassion."
-Publishers Weekly, starred review
"Ms. Isay's portraits have nuance and pathos and there is much to learn from."
-The New York Times
"With empathy and support, Isay touches on areas that no other authors on this subject have."
--Library Journal
"With Isay's sage advice, we can make life with our adult children calmer, closer and more enjoyable. This is a great read for every parent who has ever, in discussing their adult children, used the phrase, 'walking on eggshells.' "
 --Mary Pipher, author of Reviving Ophelia
"The brilliance of Walking On Eggshells lies in Isay's uncanny ability to keep our love and good intentions in focus so that we all- parents and adult children- can untangle the unhealthy knots in our relationships before they cause harm."
--Ira Byock, M.D., author of Dying Well and The Four Things That Matter Most

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