Strangers

Strangers: A Memoir of Marriage is a beautifully written eulogy for the loss of a relationship that had been loving, trusting, ‘traditional’ (in the best, unironic sense of the word)—riveting reading for its heartrending candor. Through an examination of her marriage—and the social expectations that defined it—Belle Burden examines the very nature of intimacy, vulnerability, and, in practical terms, the naïveté of many a young woman who falls in love with a 'perfect' mate. Her questions are not just, What went wrong? But, more fundamentally, What is the nature of human personality? Are we all playing ‘roles?’

Joyce Carol Oates

A lyrical and gripping tale of the abrupt end of a seemingly solid and loving marriage. I read Strangers in one weekend. Beyond Burden’s beautiful writing and shocking story, it is a call to feminism. She reminds us: Don’t fall asleep at the wheel, be self-sustaining, stake a claim in what’s yours. Strangers is a woman’s graceful awakening—and one to learn from.

Isabel Gillies, New York Times bestselling author of Happens Every Day

A searing exploration of rebuilding after profound loss. With candor, Belle Burden navigates heartbreak in a way that reshapes rather than restores, crafting a future both unrecognizable and wholly her own. More than a memoir of divorce, it is a powerful testament to reclaiming voice, power, and joy. Burden’s journey speaks to anyone broken by the unimaginable and courageous enough to forge a new beginning.

Adrienne Brodeur, New York Times bestselling author of Wild Game

A beautifully written instant classic. Strangers is gripping and heartbreaking and a must-read for every wife—and husband.

Graydon Carter

Examines how we view intimacy, how the people closest to us can change without us knowing, and how to move forward in the wake of devastation.

W Magazine

Isn't simply about the dissolution of a marriage...it’s about a private person finding her voice, about learning to live with ambiguity, about what happens when safety nets fail. Burden’s sharp, personal writing brings readers deep into her unthinkable circumstances and offers a promise to anyone suffering: you can make it to the other side.

Town & Country

In 2023, Burden went viral with a Modern Love essay entitled "Was I Married to a Stranger?" Here, she explores the full heart-shock of that episode — the sudden disintegration of a long and largely joyful marriage, undone weeks into the pandemic by the revelation that her husband had not only been unfaithful but also seemed to wish to vanish almost entirely from their shared life, which included three young children.

New York Times

Beautiful…devastating…though it’s a memoir, Strangers reads with all the momentum and colour of water-tight literary fiction

British Vogue

Named one of the 40 most exciting books to look forward to in 2026

BBC Culture

‘Burden is an elegant writer … As Strangers and myriad tv shows attest, even the most intimate and long marriages can yield nasty surprises. In the end, how well do you really know the person who lies next to you in bed every night?’

Economist

‘A compelling tale of marriage and deception… Strangers raises some serious questions about the nature of intimacy and what makes a "perfect" marriage … She weaves the narrative together deftly: I devoured Strangers in about two days, greedily absorbing every twist and painful turn … I loved it.’

Telegraph

Incredibly, incredibly well done. I inhaled it

Zara McDonald, host of 'Shameless'

'What happens when a 20-year marriage ends overnight? Belle Burden's memoir Strangers captures the fallout in an HBO-ready chronicle of gossip, privilege and pain.'

The Observer

A modern version of The Seven Year Itch … addictive reading

The Oldie

A timeless portrait of midlife heartbreak, and will be a precious balm for those who have suffered much the same thing

The Times

Incredibly, incredibly well done. I inhaled it

Zara McDonald, host of 'Shameless' podcast

If you've ever been ghosted, gaslit or dumped by text, this divorce memoir is the book you need to read … thoughtful, poised and elegantly written

Good Housekeeping

I gobbled it up in about three sittings … so engaging, so addictive, so very right now

Vogue

A beautifully written instant classic. Strangers is gripping and heartbreaking and a must-read for every wife—and husband.

Graydon Carter

As you read Strangers, you'll find yourself asking big questions: Why would a devoted father walk out on his family? What were the signs? How do I prevent this from happening to me? Burden shows that we cannot always understand why people do what they do and that we can learn to live tethered to our own truth instead. This is a beautiful memoir: Hard-won, incandescently honest, and ultimately affirming.

Elise Loehnen, New York Times bestselling author of On Our Best Behavior