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  • Published: 15 February 2012
  • ISBN: 9780345524942
  • Imprint: Random House US Group
  • Format: Paperback
  • Pages: 384
  • RRP: $35.00

MWF Seeking BFF

My Yearlong Search for a New Best Friend



For fans of A. J. Jacobs and Gretchen Rubin, a thought-provoking and hilarious look at one woman's search for a new best friend, chronicling the many discoveries she makes while embarking on fifty-two "friend dates" over the course of a year.

When Rachel Bertsche first moves to Chicago, she’s thrilled to finally share a zip code, let alone an apartment, with her boyfriend. But shortly after getting married, Bertsche realizes that her new life is missing one thing: friends. Sure, she has plenty of BFFs—in New York and San Francisco and Boston and Washington, D.C. Still, in her adopted hometown, there’s no one to call at the last minute for girl talk over brunch or a reality-TV marathon over a bottle of wine. Taking matters into her own hands, Bertsche develops a plan: She’ll go on fifty-two friend-dates, one per week for a year, in hopes of meeting her new Best Friend Forever.

In her thought-provoking, uproarious memoir, Bertsche blends the story of her girl-dates (whom she meets everywhere from improv class to friend rental websites) with the latest social research to examine how difficult—and hilariously awkward—it is to make new friends as an adult. In a time when women will happily announce they need a man but are embarrassed to admit they need a BFF, Bertsche uncovers the reality that no matter how great your love life is, you’ve gotta have friends.

  • Published: 15 February 2012
  • ISBN: 9780345524942
  • Imprint: Random House US Group
  • Format: Paperback
  • Pages: 384
  • RRP: $35.00

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Praise for MWF Seeking BFF

  • "Friendship is one of the most important elements of a happy life--but it can be tough to make new friends. Rachel Bertsche weaves together her engaging and often hilarious adventures in search of a new best friend with the latest research about the science of friendship. I couldn't put this book down." --Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project