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  • Published: 21 December 2020
  • ISBN: 9781632173133
  • Imprint: Blue Star Press
  • Format: Hardback
  • Pages: 240
  • RRP: $39.99
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How to They/Them

A Visual Guide to Nonbinary Pronouns and the World of Gender Fluidity





Ever wondered what nonbinary and gender nonconforming really mean? Or if it's grammatically correct to use they as a singular pronoun?

“This tender, smart, personal book is a gift. Stuart Getty generously shows us, with witty illustrations and kind humor, the hows and whys of they/them pronouns. A wonderful and necessary resource that is a delight to read.”
—Michelle Tea, author of Modern Tarot and Valencia

What does nonbinary really mean? What is gender nonconforming? And isn't they a plural pronoun? In this charming and disarming guide, a real-life they-using genderqueer writer unpacks all your burning questions in a fun, visual way. No soapboxes or divisive comment-section wars here!

Sometimes funny, sometimes serious, always human, this gender-friendly primer will get you up to speed. It's about more than just bathrooms and pronouns--this is about gender expression and the freedom to choose how to identify. While they might only be for some, that freedom is for everyone!

“[A] clear, kind guide to gender nonconformity. Getty's cheeky tone and the punchy black-and-white illustrations by Brooke Thyng make this book a useful reference for anyone with questions about gender, whether their own or those they witness in the larger world.”
—Booklist

“Straightforward, practical, relevant navigation through the radiant world of gender fluidity.”
—Kirkus Reviews

  • Published: 21 December 2020
  • ISBN: 9781632173133
  • Imprint: Blue Star Press
  • Format: Hardback
  • Pages: 240
  • RRP: $39.99
Categories:

Praise for How to They/Them

Praise for How to They/Them:

  • "This is totally cool."--Eileen Myles, poet and author of Chelsea Girls
  • "An easy visual learning guide to accompany us on the journey to accepting others as they truly are."--Jinkx Monsoon, winner of RuPaul's Drag Race
  • "Utterly cute and tremendously useful."--Alok Vaid-Menon, author of Beyond the Gender Binary
  • "This book will give nonbinary readers a sense of being profoundly seen and everyone else the confidence to make the world that little bit safer for their nonbinary friends, family, and colleagues."--Meg-John Barker, author of Gender: A Graphic Guide and How to Understand Your Gender
  • "This tender, smart, personal book is a gift."--Michelle Tea, author of Modern Tarot and Valencia
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