- Published: 23 January 2024
- ISBN: 9780241626085
- Imprint: Penguin Life
- Format: Trade Paperback
- Pages: 384
- RRP: $36.99
He/She/They
How We Talk About Gender and Why It Matters

















- Published: 23 January 2024
- ISBN: 9780241626085
- Imprint: Penguin Life
- Format: Trade Paperback
- Pages: 384
- RRP: $36.99
This book is informative, fabulous to read, and leaves the reader with information, joy and proactive ways to get involved in what is one of the most important human rights conversations of our time. I love this book!
Jonathan Van Ness
This book is so necessary ... I know I speak for trans people everywhere when I say, no one is better suited to this than Schuyler. He is the master of accessible, inclusive and entertaining explainers
Freddy McConnell, author and journalist
He/She/They is a beautiful, embracing, and compassionate book for those wanting to explore their own, or another's gender identity
Jamie Windust, Author & Broadcaster, Contributing Editor at Gay Times
Through this heart-holding educational memoir, Schuyler Bailar swims through a sea of hate and misinformation - preaching love and learning. Schuyler's words seek to challenge power and connect to those who really need it. And that's what we need right fucking now
Radam Ridwan (@radamridwan), trans non-binary content creator, author of 'The Lockdown Lookbook'
Courageous and heartwarming, He/She/They sheds light on the journey of gender discovery and acceptance. A must-read for anyone seeking understanding, compassion, and hope on the path to self-discovery
Jazz Jennings, [she/her], activist, television personality, and author
Trans and gender-fluid teens will see themselves in Bailar's meaningful work, and cis teens will find essential information on being a good ally
Booklist (Starred Review)
'Deeply informative and beautifully written'
Elliot Page