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  • Published: 21 January 2020
  • ISBN: 9781611808490
  • Imprint: Shambhala
  • Format: Paperback
  • Pages: 440
  • RRP: $34.99

Grace and Grit

A Love Story



Acclaimed philosopher Ken Wilber shares the heart-wrenching journey through his wife's illness and eventual death with a story of health, healing, wholeness, harmony, suffering, and surrender.

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Heartfelt, deeply moving, and incredibly real, this narrative shares the five-year journey of philosopher Ken Wilber and his wife, Treya Killam Wilber, through Treya’s illness, treatment, and death. Ken’s wide-ranging commentary—which questions conventional and New Age approaches to illness and reaches beyond the experience to find wisdom in pain—is combined with Treya’s journals to create a portrait of health and healing, wholeness and harmony, and suffering and surrender. This edition includes a new preface by the author.

  • Published: 21 January 2020
  • ISBN: 9781611808490
  • Imprint: Shambhala
  • Format: Paperback
  • Pages: 440
  • RRP: $34.99

About the author

Ken Wilber

KEN WILBER is the developer of an integral "theory of everything" that embraces the truths of all the world's great psychological, scientific, philosophical, and spiritual traditions. He founded the Integral Institute, a think-tank for studying issues of science and society, in 2000. Wilber is the author of twenty books.

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Praise for Grace and Grit

“Anyone who has cancer or anyone who is supporting someone with cancer should read this book.”—Tricycle "A tremendously moving love story. Wilber presents cancer as a healing crisis, an occasion for self-confrontation and growth."—Publishers Weekly "A singular achievement. It succeeds as a story of one cancer patient's experience, as a guidebook for patients and their caretakers, as a love story, as a survey of the world's mystical traditions, as an examination of death and dying, and as an exploration of relationship as a means for spiritual development."—Natural Health "A deep and searing look at living, dying, loving, death, and resurrection."—M. Scott Peck, M.D. "A rare book—a love story that brings the perennial wisdom of the ages to life in all the anguish and exaltation that comprise the human condition. Treya Killam Wilber's honesty, vibrancy, and compassion speak through her many journal entries, masterfully woven with Ken's text, to make Grace and Grit a true experience of sacred partnership."—Joan Borysenko, Ph.D.; author of Minding the Body, Mending the Mind and Guilt Is the Teacher, Love Is the Lesson