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  • Published: 25 November 2025
  • ISBN: 9781761355851
  • Imprint: Penguin Random House Australia Audio
  • Format: Audio Download
  • RRP: $36.99

Ask Yourself This

Flex Mami's guide to shadow work

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A shadow work journal to uncover your ideal self and unlock your higher purpose, by self-help queen Flex Mami

This journal is a place for everything you’re too afraid to say out loud. Flex Mami provides the questions, you provide the answers.
Your shadow self hides from you, like a dream you can’t hold on to in the morning. Shadow work helps you face your deeper, darker or even repressed sides – so you can start listening to the voice that makes you feel honest and alive.
Begin on SIDE ONE and let your subconscious speak. What are you hiding from? Answer the hard questions, face the parts of you that feel contradictory, challenging, painful. The more you write, the more you reveal.
Then, once you have self-excavated, flip over to SIDE TWO. Use what you’ve discovered through automatic writing to create your preferred story. You have the knowledge to consciously script your future.
Containing 190 enlightening prompts, Ask Yourself This is a self-discovery journal like no other.
With Flex Mami’s guidance, you can find what you’ve always wanted for yourself but have never been allowed to claim.
  • Published: 25 November 2025
  • ISBN: 9781761355851
  • Imprint: Penguin Random House Australia Audio
  • Format: Audio Download
  • RRP: $36.99
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About the author

Lillian Ahenkan

The ultimate renaissance woman, Lillian Ahenkan (aka Flex Mami) is a TV and radio presenter, award-winning podcaster, bestselling author, astrologer, DJ, media influencer, social commentator, speaker, brand consultant, model, jewellery designer and founder.

Flex Mami was a 2023 Logie nominee for Best New Talent and the co-host of Flex and Froomes on CADA. The show surpassed 1 million downloads in just six months and won Bronze at the 2022 Australian Podcast Awards. Her ReFlex card games have sold 25,000 units and are now stocked in NGV Design stores.

In essence, Flex Mami gets paid to be herself. She creates and facilitates challenging, nourishing conversations, cultivates communities and creates very good content. Her latest endeavour is her podcast No Deep Dives, where she invites audiences to dip into the warm waters of her mind. Her brand exists at the perfect intersection of chaotic, commercial, conventional and the chronically online, making her one of the most nuanced cultural commentators in the Australian media landscape.

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