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  • Published: 30 August 2022
  • ISBN: 9780593421550
  • Imprint: Avery
  • Format: Hardback
  • Pages: 224
  • RRP: $44.99

For You When I Am Gone

Twelve Essential Questions to Tell a Life Story



From the bestselling author of The Beauty of What Remains, a guide to writing a meaningful letter about your life.

Writing an ethical will, a document that includes stories and reflections about your past, is an ancient tradition. It can include joy and regrets, and ultimately becomes both a way to remember a loved one who is gone and a primer on how to live a better, happier life. Beloved Rabbi Steve Leder has helped thousands of people to write their own ethical wills, and in this intimate book helps us write our own.

Because our culture privileges the material over the spiritual, we sometimes forget that our words carry greater value than any physical thing we can bequeath to our loved ones. Rabbi Leder provides all the right questions and prompts, including: What was your most painful regret and how can your loved ones avoid repeating it? When was a time you led with your heart instead of your head? What did you learn from your biggest failure?

Including examples of ethical wills from a broad range of voices—old and young, with and without children, famous and unknown—For You When I Am Gone inspires readers to examine their own lives and turn them into something beautiful and meaningful for generations to come.

  • Published: 30 August 2022
  • ISBN: 9780593421550
  • Imprint: Avery
  • Format: Hardback
  • Pages: 224
  • RRP: $44.99

About the author

Steve Leder

Steve Leder is the Senior Rabbi of Wilshire Boulevard Temple in Los Angeles and the author of such critically acclaimed books as The Extraordinary Nature of Ordinary Things and More Money Than God: Living a Rich Life Without Losing Your Soul. He is a graduate of Northwestern University; studied at Trinity College, Oxford; and was ordained at the Hebrew Union College. He is a recipient of the American Jewish Press Association's Louis Rappaport Award for Excellence in Commentary and the Religious Action Center's Kovler Award. Newsweek magazine named him one of the 10 most influential rabbis in America. Rabbi Leder lives with his family in Los Angeles.
Website (Wilshire Boulevard Temple): www.wbtla.org

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